I would say keep it simple. Solid colors would probably be best, you’ll want a petticoat, but nothing huge. Do something simple, yet elegant with your hair, and keep everything elegant. You should be able to express your love for Lolita without stealing the show, remember, they aren’t your parties so you shouldn’t stand out too much.
Anonymous:I have a few bat/bar mitsvahs to go to this year. How can I pull of some type of lolita for the ceremony and party!? Two different coords!!? And I have 5 to go To, 4 have to have different outfits each time. Help please!!