Lolita Tips

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fuwakumasan in Sweetie Chandelier

fuwakumasan in Sweetie Chandelier

Tips for Looking more Confident

1. Pay attention to your posture. Stand straight, and don’t slouch.

2. Smile.

3. Look people in the eyes. Averting your gaze or looking down at your feet sends the message that you’re feeling insecure.

4. Take your time - so you look more relaxed and ease with yourself, and with your ideas and decisions.

5. Speak slowly, carefully and with self-belief. Don’t mumble or continually apologize for yourself.

6. Accept compliments from others (don’t deflect them, or quickly brush them off).

7. Dressing with confidence often helps us feel more confident about ourselves. Don’t be afraid to try new things, and to look as if you have a (positive) statement to make.

8. Be aware of your positive qualities and strengths. Keep reminding yourself that it is great to be you!

And remember that looking more confident will help you feel more confident!

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Anonymous:

Do you know where I can find verum tights knock offs? I heard you can get them on taobao but when I checked they were all the same price. Any help? Thanks!!

I can’t help much with verum tights, but you can find a lot of printed tights with similar themes around storenvy and some other indie shops. Ophanim has a lot of really nice printed tights.

ellernock:

axolotl anon: it also might help the candy cane look to put in some shades of pink? more red-toned pinks and peaches than bluer ones, but enough to get the contrast to be less extreme? i don't know if this will help or if i'm even qualified to add anything here i'm very sorry.

Don’t be sorry, it could actually work quite nicely. Thanks for your input!

dollymuuh:

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Anonymous:

I've been looking for shoes recently and I've always had trouble with them. High heels can be painful but my feet are also too narrow for flats. Do you have any advice on a style of shoes that might work? Thanks :3

Have you tried wedges? I have a pair of wedges from Bodyline and they are seriously the most comfortable Lolita shoes I have ever worn. Wedges are pretty easy to find in Lolita shoes too. They give you the elevation of heels but with extra support in the middle. You can also try low heels. The world of shoes isn’t made up of high heels and no heels, there are a lot of in between heels that are great. If you go to Qutieland they give you three options for heel heights and in those sections are still varying heights.

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Anonymous:

How do you keep socks in good condition? After a few wears the bottom fabric starts to pill for me and they get blackened so easily (and I never wear them without shoes!). It really sucks when you spend $30 on brand socks just to ruin them right away.

I’ve noticed that sometimes the inside of new shoes can make socks look really gross because sometimes they have weird finishes in them so whenever you get a new pair of shoes I would recommend wearing them around the house for a while in a pair of old socks that you don’t mind getting messed up just to break the shoes in and get rid of any weird stuff that might be inside.
As for the pilling, there are a lot of ways you can get rid of that. This method works well for a lot of socks but there are some that it won’t work for so I would look around google for ways that work for your socks.
Also, when you wash your socks, wash them inside garment bags to keep them safe and use delicate detergent.

ezios-fine-ass:

do you know if bodyline's L160 shirt has detachable sleeves ? It never says if they are or not

Yes, they are detachable.