To offer some body-safe options for lolitas with stretched ears, this site http://www.babypietattoo.com (i know their shop from a body mod blog that they help moderate) is full of kawaii goodness that could be lovely for sweet lolita! Like donut plugs!
And look at these sweet teacups <3
and even icecream!
The inlays are polymer clay, inside body-safe steel ear tunnels. She manufactures from size 00g to 1 inch and they typically run under $40.
Response from Lolita Tips:
These are adorable! Thanks for sharing!